When most people think of witchcraft, they think of herbs drying in the kitchen, crystals reflecting sunlight from the altar, or spell work whispered on the wind. But there’s another quieter, deeper current in this work. It’s working with your ancestors.
For witches, especially as the veil thins at Samhain, working with your ancestors becomes one of the most grounding and powerful practices.
It links you to the all the ones who came before. Their stories are carried in your bones, and their wisdom reaches far beyond what any workshop can offer.
But if you’re just beginning to work with ancestors, it can feel daunting. Where do you even begin? And what if your family history feels complicated or painful?
In this post, we’ll go one step at a time.
Why Ancestors Matter in Witchcraft
Across cultures, ancestor veneration has always been a bridge between worlds. In witchcraft, ancestors aren’t just figures locked in the stories passed from generation to generation. They are threads in the great web of life. Threads that shaped you.
Here’s how working with your ancestors can help you:
- Offer comfort and guidance when the path ahead feels uncertain.
- Lend your practice a sense of protection and belonging.
- Help you see the story of where you’ve come from and where you’re headed.
- Root you in the balance of past, present, and future.
Who Counts as an Ancestor?
For many beginners, this gives them pause. Who counts and who doesn’t? The short answer is that they all do. Ancestors aren’t only blood relatives. They might be:
- Blood Ancestors: your family lineage.
- Cultural Ancestors: those who share your traditions or homeland.
- Spiritual Ancestors: teachers, artists, or guides who shaped your path.
- Chosen Ancestors: the kin you claim through resonance, not blood.
If your family story is tangled with toxicity, you don’t need to force a connection with individuals who hurt you. You can reach further back, or turn toward cultural, spiritual, and chosen ancestors who feel safe and supportive.
Begin Working with Your Ancestors
You don’t need elaborate rituals. Start simple, with gestures of honor:
- Create a small altar with a photo, heirlooms, mementos or even a found object that represents lineage.
- Light a candle and whisper to the ether: I remember those who came before me.
- Offer water, flowers, or even food as a sign of respect.
- Journal your reflections or write letters to your ancestors.
- Pay attention to dreams or synchronicities since these often carry messages.
Consistency matters. Elaborate work doesn’t. Over time, these simple actions weave trust and connection between you and your ancestors.
Common Questions
- What if I don’t know my ancestors? A candle lit for “ all those who came before” is enough.
- What if my ancestors caused harm? You’re never required to honor what feels unsafe. Reach for the older ones, or chosen/cultural ancestors who bring strength and support.
- What if I feel nothing? Connection grows slowly. Keep showing up with sincerity, and subtle shifts will follow. Trust the process.
A Simple Ritual to Try
- Place a candle on your altar.
- Add a photo or symbolic item if you have one.
- Pour a small glass of water as an offering.
- Light the candle and speak:
“I honor those who came before me. May your wisdom guide me, and your strength support me.” - Sit quietly. Breathe. Notice your thoughts, emotions, sensations.
This simple ritual, repeated periodically, can become the foundation of a profound practice.
Ancestors at Samhain
Samhain, the season of the witch, is when the veil between worlds is thinnest.
It’s the natural time to lean into ancestor work.
Not as obligation but as an act of reverence and remembering. When you light a candle, pour water, or whisper their names, you step into an ancient stream of magick.
Like in all ritual, ancestor work doesn’t need to be perfect. It only needs to be sincere. And in return, it offers belonging, perspective, and strength.
All those who stand behind you in spirit remind us that we are not alone. We are part of a living lineage and in that is powerful magick.
Summary of Working with Your Ancestors
Ancestor work is about remembering that you are part of a story much larger than yourself. Every candle you light, every whispered word, is a thread weaving you back into the fabric of belonging.
As the season of Samhain draws near, let your ancestor practice be simple, heartfelt, and real. In honoring those who came before, you also honor the path you’re walking now.
Blessed be.
Next Step on the Path
If this speaks to your spirit, you’ll love the Sacred Samhain Collection—a seasonal bundle of rituals, reflections, and tools crafted to help you honor the thinning veil and your own transformation. Inside, you’ll find practices for ancestor work, shadow exploration, and stepping into the deeper mysteries of the season.
This Samhain, cross the threshold with intention, guided by the wisdom of those who came before.
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